Probably one of the biggest complaints I hear from guys is how “the nice guys always finish last”. So lets talk about why…
One of the main reasons you chumps finish last is because you get noticed last. (I only call ya chumps cause you keep complaining about it) Not that this is bad, females see those that want to be seen, so unless you have a charismatic personality where you are okay going up speaking to women, or living a flashy lifestyle you’re not even noticed, not that this is your fault, its just that your competition knows how to be seen, blocking you from view.
Females who accept these men typically don’t stick around long. I use the term ‘accept’ because once again, at the time you were sitting in the background, this is what she got presented with. Now some of these birds love the life- you don’t want those scraps anyway so appreciate that all females won’t chase you, everything ain’t worth the catch.
Somewhere in their 20’s MOST girls re-evaluate their expectations to look for someone who is good to them and comes with some security. The trick is being the first ‘nice guy’ to come out of hiding after those expectations have been re-arranged. So, nice guys DO finish last, and that’s the female you want to be ‘last’ with, one who can actually appreciate you for the person you are. Seriously nothing can be worse for you then thinking you’ve found the one, who then chooses someone after you. Yea fellas, happens to you too.
Oh but I’ve heard your rebuttal : you get a woman whose looks are fading, and who screwed around in her prime with other men, & demanding, so now you’ll be getting the ‘damaged goods’ so to speak, with someone who waited until she felt privileged enough to have other choices, or until she felt she no longer had choices and wanted the safe option. Well damn, do you want someone or not?
At some point, females will realize there’s no such thing as Prince Charming and it’s time to go after for someone who is tn the here &now, treats them well and isn’t going to leave with realistic expectation. Fact of the matter is, you need to be thankful to the bottom feeders, for helping make your timid behind something to appreciate. Maybe you’re single for a reason, you’re so worried about how the other guys got the girl, you need to be focused on working on you so you’re worth something a female wants to be with. No point in sitting in the corner if you’re not preparing yourself for what you want.
So nice guys, here are your options, grow a pair and start making your presence known (dont try to imitate these fools you see though, that can be seen through and its very obvious you’re putting too much effort into getting noticed) or sit back shut up and wait your for your turn. Until then just keep it moving right along.