chivalry; addressing the female

I KNOW you birds didn’t think I was gonna let you off scott free???

Women have got to be the most impossible creatures ever! One minute you’re burning bras and screaming to be equal but then when a man makes you work and pull your equal share of the weight you wanna man that can take care of you. Here’s the thing, realistically you can have both. You can still take care of yourself and appreciate when a man steps up, but you “I don’t need a man” individuals don’t know how to appreciate anyone helping you out, so you go right ahead and continue to do everything for yourselves, remember that when you’re physically incapable of doing something and it turns out you do need a man… Chivalry didn’t die, it just went wherever being lady-like went.

Many women hate the idea of chivalry because it implies that women are weaker and more vulnerable than men and need special protection. Women used to need saving, more specifically women wanted a man that showed those actions. Some of you, rather you wanna believe it or not, y’all need saving, cause you out here looking real foolish & sounding even worse on your own, take all that you can get.

Having a man simply open a door for you doesn’t mean he is up to something, every man that speaks, or says you look nice isn’t trying to hit on you, learn to take a compliment and keep it moving. Even better, learn some of these traits from him!

I know deep down, you brids (should) WANT to be treated like ladies (Thats a bit of a stretch I know, considering a lot of you feel on top of the world being a “bad bitch”). In most cases men offer less, because women expect and accept less.*cough* standards *cough*  You bats so badly want someone to treat (shower you with material stuff) and chase you so you can “know its real” you don’t appreciate the efforts, the n you mad cause the good one’s are gone? Well, really, who is gonna wanna stay with your ungrateful ass? A few of you have set your standards higher than your own worth, you want what looks appealing, athlete, doctor lawyer, because it looks good, well some of you neglect with that image you have to fit and everything that glitters ain’t gold, and you get that pretty glass with the ass beatings, drug habits, being one of many men are with all because of an image you wanted to portray. Money will attract a life you want (remember more money, more problems) but the guy you need, that will treat you like a queen may be the desk clerk, garbage man or janitor- the humble hard worker. 

Its a man’s job to respect a woman, but only if you’re giving him something to respect. Relationships become clearer when you stop trying to find Mr. Right and focus on being the right woman. Many of you have given me a bunch of examples as to what a “real man” is but no answers on what a real woman is. You attract people based on the qualities you display. 

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  1. @Its a man’s job to respect a woman, but only if you’re giving him something to respect. Relationships become clearer when you stop trying to find Mr. Right and focus on being the right woman. Many of you have given me a bunch of examples as to what a “real man” is but no answers on what a real woman is. You attract people based on the qualities you display. ..>> You said more than a mouthful! I couldn’t agree more..Totally CO-SIGN. Keep spreading that message..Best way to spread it? By doing it..2 thumbs UP

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