I want to know people,do you prefer a mate tell you up front that you will not be the only one he/she is seeing? Or would you rather believe you’re the only one, until otherwise stated?
Personally, I want a man to tell me up front. Now hear me out before you call me crazy. For me having a man tell me, allows me the opportunity to then decide if I will stick around or not. Now if I decide to stay and be #2,3,4… that is my problem and I lose all rights to being mad about him seeing other women, I know up front my time is limited and there is a chance I will be cut from the team. But I’d like to know, what would you choose? Are you okay knowing ahead of time you aren’t the only one someone is seeing? (This is of course, based off him being honest and straight forward in the beginning, not someone cheating on you. That’s a different story)
Speaking of which, I think up next we need to break down being the “other”, stick around this should be good.