I’m writing in hopes of getting your advice. I’ve been dating this guy for over a year, recently his ex has moved back into the area and he has been spending some time with her too. To make a long story short last week he says he feel as though he is stuck between a rock & a hard place because he doesn’t know what to do, he loves us both. I really do love him but lately time that was before meant for me is taken away so he can see her. Can you help me? I’m the one feeling stuck.
-should I stay or go
Dear Should I stay,
Well the fact that you’re even questioning this in my opinion means you already know the answer. He is stuck because he’s looking for you to say its okay. You can love two people but cant be IN love with two people. He WANTS you both. The fact that he is willing to take time away from you to give to someone else sums up this whole situation. Now to answer your question, well, can you handle not being the only one? If you can then go ahead and accept his offer to bring someone else around but be willing for the possibility that she says no to being a trio and he leaves you. You’re stuck because your feelings are involved, but, you know what needs to be done. Now I cant tell you how to feel or act, but I can say this is some bull, this dude has already shown you that you weren’t that important, or this wouldn’t even be a topic. Stay if you want- but 1) it wont last long and 2) you’ll be the one looking foolish cause he’s gonna keep it moving.