You want a crazy chick?

I keep hearing that a female isn’t really in love or serious if she isn’t jealous or a psycho. Who the hell came up with this stupid ass concept? First, you bruised fruit want a female that’s not jealous and not crazy, then you’re testing her loyalty & personality to see how into you she is?

Now don’t get me wrong, yes, women are a tad jealous by nature, but for you men (gonna use that term loosely) to intentionally try to make a female jealous is weak, that’s some bitchassness. Women are attracted to confident men. Jealousy doesn’t prove love.  It proves insecurity, and one can only speculate when you’re the one trying to provoke jealousy. 

When you’re jealous, you are afraid of being replaced by another person in the heart, mind and life of someone you find important. Maybe, just maybe, you’ve got a girl who isn’t afraid of that, or maybe she realizes her life still continues even if you do leave (don’t give yourself too much credit, the world still turns without you).  Either way, stop this notion that a female isn’t in to you because she isn’t jealous, grow up.

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  1. 3rdLegKickStand June 10, 2013 — 8:54 AM

    Lol what are you talking about the crazy ones are the best!!! We can’t talk if I can’t see you tryna stab me at least once or twice. Lmao

    But yes, jealousy is an ugly trait.

  2. Apimpnamedslickback June 10, 2013 — 9:39 AM

    Jealousy is a females trait! Have you ever heard the term insecurity kills your self-esteem? Yea sometimes dudes make females crazy because of the dumb shit that they do. Sometimes though as a female you have to learn when you are being jealous, overreacting, and borderline crazy; not based on him though but on your own thoughts and feelings. And hey maybe you need to look in the mirror and evaluate yourself to see why you keep attracting the bitchassness! And my motto is, there is always more fish in the sea!

    • Jealousy is not limited to females!!! I’ve seen more jealous and insecure men than I would care to. Guys start off thinking these things in females is cute but its very hard to

  3. I can’t go against you on this on!!!! The weakest of weak men want insecure women, talk about a man letting his insecurities show! The quickest way to get me chuck the deuces is to even make me feel slightly insecure about our relationship (a man could never make me feel insecure about myself), I’m gone. I don’t have time for immature, little boy games. Grow up!!!

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