OK fellas, I feel an obligation to put this out there. When pursuing a female in the beginning stages there is a notable difference between expressing interest and doing entirely too much.
Yes a female wants to feel like she’s on your mind, but do NOT NOT NOT text & call ALL day!!!! This is irritating as fuxk! This makes you look like you have no life, and expect her to do the same. I mean do you really want a female that has nothing but time on her hands? The ‘good morning’ texts are cool, say that and keep it moving. No need to get into “how’d you sleep, what did ya dream about, what did u have for breakfast blah blah blah” -_- stop that!
Wanting to see a female is great too, after all you’ve got to get to know the person, being in their face every day is no good. Now even if this is “the one” and you wanna spend your life with them, you’ll have enough time down the road to stare at their faces, don’t burn yourself out on them too soon. Wanting a female to ditch her friends for you- look man, just because you have no life doesn’t mean she cant have one.
Pet names! Listen, boo, sweetie, bae, honey blah blah blah, in the beginning is too much!!! After a while, honestly it just makes it look like you don’t know her name. Until you’ve been dating, past that beginning ‘getting to know’ stage, but actually dating, then you can introduce names, anything before that you’re making yourself too comfortable (and pushy) too soon.
There is no reason your friends should know about her and you know nothing about any of her friends. All these things just scream needy & clingy, we get it, you know what you want & will go for it, but slow it down.