Ok, as much as we talk about how to keep things together, reality is, sometimes things just don’t work out. What to do, now I can give a few tips, readers be sure to add as well.
Stay busy, the more time you’re able to spend focusing your time on other things the better! Constantly reminding yourself of them only hurts you. As quickly as possible remove all of their belongings, pictures,mutual friends, phone numbers, facebook, twitter, IG, and anything that will be a direct tie to them.
Get with your friends,we all have those friends who will no matter what point out all the bad and dog your significant other no matter what, getting with your friends, helps get you out of the house and get to vent.
Hit the gym, this is probably my favorite, not because you need to lose weight, but it gets you moving and exercise will give you endorphins, endorphins make you happy, happy people don’t spend all day crying (or wanting to kill).
NO DRINKING!!!!! This is probably the worse idea, alcohol is a depressant, so its only gonna bring you down, and emotional, you’re already gonna be down and emotional. Emotional drunks during a breakup usually go one of two ways, “please baby please” or “I fxcking hate you” either way, you looks NUTS, unstable and it just further confirms the break up.
Realize there was a reason this didn’t work out, as much as you’d like to think they were “the one” accept it ended for a reason, when someone wants to leave, let them,why hold on to something that’s not meant for you and doesn’t want to be around? Its okay to cry or be upset, just means you’re human, just don’t dwell on it, cause (unless you’re suicidal, in which I really really encourage you to get around other people ASAP) life will go on, and in a few months, when you thought you couldn’t go on any longer, you’ll be living, without them. You came into the world alone, that’s how you go out. Another person is only to add and compliment to your life, they shouldn’t complete, be the better half or be your reason for happiness.As crappy as you’re going to feel in the moment, time does heal and know you are not the only person in the world who has gone through this.