Guys, the first thing when you meet a girl, you have THREE encounters before you begin to slip and either will be dismissed or put in the friendzone. By meeting 3, you need to show / tell her you have interest in being with her. No you’re not someone to just ‘hang’ with, you can see yourself being more than friends. < say this!
Ask her out- don’t make it creepy, “hey lets go on a date” however that’s basically what it will be. The key is 1 on 1 time. at least twice a month.
If she is going through a break up- DISAPPEAR! DO NOT be there for this! She has girls for that, being around to be a shoulder will send you SOOO far back in the zone.
NEVER try to kiss a girl in public- NEVER EVER EVER.
Put yourself in the conversation. Do not just nod & smile when shes talking, about her self. Or whatever the topic is, put yourself in it somehow, it makes her focus on YOU a bit.
Back off, this may not be something you want to do but will be necessary.Give her time to miss you. When she is still contacting you (which hopefully you’re worth missing, if not let it go) Be busy- even if you’re just sitting on the couch playing the game. You need to be swamped for about 3 months, BUT still interested in being with her. “I’m swamped with work, (enter excuse here) but we need to go out soon” This is human nature, people love the chase, and having whats not theirs.
Workout, one gives her something to look at, and feel when she touches you. Two improves your own swag. If it doesn’t work for her, another female will appreciate. When she first met you there may not have been any physical attraction- so work on this.
If none of these work, either be ready to walk away or have her hook you up with one of her friends or be a lookout for you when you go out. Having a female on the team can have its advantages.