Women always talk about how they don’t want to be bribed and bought, first of all STOP LYING! Females want to be spoiled, now guys no that’s not all. However, I’m not here to address the men today, I need to address the ladies.
Ladies! When you mess up, and you will. You need to consider the things you ask men to do when they mess up. First and most important, own your f*ck up!! Own it!! Don’t just acknowledge it, because that doesn’t fix anything. Ladies, probably the worst thing you can do while in a relationship is make your f*ck up minor or not that important. You don’t live in the mid of a man, and most of the time to spare your feelings a man will just walk away, so don’t assume you know his feelings about a situation. (*sidenote* guys, sometimes walking away won’t help future endeavors you need to put a female in her place at times or accept she’ll always be walking over you, cause you won’t do anything about it.)
Fact of the matter is women are probably the worse at fixing a relationship issue that they messed up. They are only good for a few things, and women will not spend money to buy men something as a gift to say they’re sorry. As much as men allow you to think they don’t care, and aren’t that bright, men know when you buy something, you either messed up or are kissing up, women don’t typically just spend money on guys ‘just because , in the same manner they don’t spend money on you ‘just because’ they do it so you’ll shut up, or so they too get something in return.
“I’ll just put it on him real good and he’ll forgive me” or it wont be a big deal, uhh no bird, he gets that dried up, loose thang already. It ain’t nothing new, or something he doesn’t get anyways, so close your legs! Some things sex just cant fix, and sometimes sex is just sex for men, and you’ll still be up shits creek.
Cooking for a man, if you’re living together or in a serious relationship, chances are, cooking is something you need to be doing anyway, (* not stuff that comes with microwave instructions, that is not cooking) Don’t think you can cook for a guy and get him to just move past whatever you may have done. He had to eat anyways, and there are fast food places usually within a square mile radius, so again, not providing anything he cant already get.
Guys, stop being chumps, I know some fights aren’t worth the effort, but I guarantee if you keep walking away ignoring situations, a female will not only to continue to push boundaries, but also will see that behavior as acceptable and continue with it.
Ladies, you’re not always right! Get off your high horse, humble yourselves and accept the fact you can be wrong- often. This will make any future arguments a lot easier to move past when you can accept you aren’t perfect.
Typically when a female messes up she is not trying by any means to admit it was her fault, but will do/say whatever that will prevent a break up. What you cant do ladies is try to compare your mess up with pasts or always make you’re not a big deal, two wrongs don’t make a right. Its not that females don’t know they are wrong, but females are used to crying and batting their eyes and things are fine, all is forgiven. This is a trait learned at a very early age, and yes guys, it takes a while to break, however, ladies when you’re grown you gotta put on your big girl drawls and stop that shit. When you grow up enough to enter into certain situations, you’ve gotta be ready to accept everything that comes with it and know how to handle it.