There’s a saying “Man alone, is born crying, lives complaining, and dies disappointed.”
With that, it needs to be said, people, stop your whining and complaining. If you’re in a situation in which you have control- change it, and if you have no control, accept it and shut up! The only thing worse than hearing someone complain all the time, is hearing them complain about the same damn thing. Once you have accepted something, you no longer have rights to complain about it, you made a choice to stick with it, so shut the fxck up!
People will never be willing to make time for you if you are always complaining, it makes you look unhappy and unappreciative. There is nothing more unattractive than a grown person that will not stop their complaining. Its a bad character trait, you seem unstable, weak and its just irritating.
Girls, if you’re dating a guy who hasn’t done right since day 1 what are you birds staying around for? The answer really doesn’t matter, just the fact you made a decision to stay, so deal with it.
Now I can give you a cute speech to deal with these people and if you are one of these people I could tell you to find something good in every situation, but really, you just need to shut up. If you’re not gonna leave or change a situation, shut up! Ever consider why your situation hasn’t changed and why no one goes out of their way to do anything for you? Give it some good thought… If you’re constantly around these people, you too lose all rights, you keep answering & going around to hear their complaining so sit there and take it all in.
Fact is, as humans we have more control over our lives than we’d like to take credit for, you can spend your life complaining if you want, but it is your life, and you can change it. But for the sake of other puh-leeze shut up complaining about it.