There’s a saying “Man alone, is born crying, lives complaining, and dies disappointed.”
With that, it needs to be said, people, stop your whining and complaining. If you’re in a situation in which you have control- change it, and if you have no control, accept it and shut up! The only thing worse than hearing someone complain all the time, is hearing them complain about the same damn thing. Once you have accepted something, you no longer have rights to complain about it, you made a choice to stick with it, so shut the fxck up!
People will never be willing to make time for you if you are always complaining, it makes you look unhappy and unappreciative. There is nothing more unattractive than a grown person that will not stop their complaining. Its a bad character trait, you seem unstable, weak and its just irritating.
Girls, if you’re dating a guy who hasn’t done right since day 1 what are you birds staying around for? The answer really doesn’t matter, just the fact you made a decision to stay, so deal with it.
Now I can give you a cute speech to deal with these people and if you are one of these people I could tell you to find something good in every situation, but really, you just need to shut up. If you’re not gonna leave or change a situation, shut up! Ever consider why your situation hasn’t changed and why no one goes out of their way to do anything for you? Give it some good thought… If you’re constantly around these people, you too lose all rights, you keep answering & going around to hear their complaining so sit there and take it all in.
Fact is, as humans we have more control over our lives than we’d like to take credit for, you can spend your life complaining if you want, but it is your life, and you can change it. But for the sake of other puh-leeze shut up complaining about it.
The definition of insanity….and people say they aren’t crazy! This is proof and they are Ludacris!!!! Idk where this trend came from where people believe if they complain long enough they will change something. Clearly they missed the most important lesson: Actions Speak Louder Than Words!!!!! Just a little more advice for someone who is recognizing this is them!!!!
@shay-ron that is a trait picked up from when we were just children. “If I cry, someone will come to my rescue.” Babies have picked up on it at an early age. And if they aren’t ripped away from that habbit at an young age… They grow up to be bitches. (Excuse my french)
That being said I’m soft and will give an ear. But that’s about it. No emotions no tears anything. I refuse to throw myself off because I want to care about some bullshit you’re crying over. (Don’t know if yall got this paragraph though) lol
But I agree 100% Ms. YFYCS great blog.
Btw you calling females birds is priceless
One: I didn’t come out crying, I was a G from the start. Second: we must define these people as PABS… Punk ass B*itches. People whine and complain because they have a weak ass backbone and don’t know how to just put up or shut up. I learned that whining will get you no where but left or left assed out. No reason to complain about stuff that’s out of your control. if it is within your control do something different about it. Now I will say there is a difference between complaining and venting. Sometimes you just need to get some stuff off your chest which I can understand, but when you do it all the time and its the same sad song and you have made no attempt to change the situation, all I can say to you is STFU! Another thing, if your man ain’t acting right. Come see Apimpnamedslickback, I can change your life 100% guaranteed or your money back!