I’m reaching an age where it seems naturally (idk who made up this time scheme) my peers are getting married and having kids (on purpose). I am always happy to see my friends happy no matter what, however, some of y’all need not go running down that isle and I cant stress enough how some of you need to keep birth control, I know you believe we are here for reproduction but please please keep your pants on. Everyone shouldn’t reproduce.
Simply put: MARRIAGE AIN’T FOR EVERYBODY. Some people need to just date, –forever. You’d make a terrible wife/husband, I mean really, some of y’all don’t even make good productive members of society single, the world does not need a double dose of your foolery. A marriage (in my eyes anyway) is a business, YOU are a brand, and you need to choose very wisely who you choose to merge with.
“But we have love” LMAO! Okay, that’s cute, you’re in love! Once that wears off, and bills, debt and kids become real how do you explain that? Cause none of those things survive off of “love” alone. I’ve tried paying Sallie Mae with my love… moving right along. Typically businesses merge for the better, coming out with a profit… a lot of you go in broke and come out in the negative. But its cool, you’re in love. Listen I’m not saying love shouldn’t be a factor, I’m just saying it should only be one factor.
Some of you simply want that title -_- and will put up with lying, cheating,bad credit, black eyes, disrespect (the list could go on) just to call yourself someones significant other. You clowns deserve a V-8 smack. You came in the world alone and that’s how you go out, marriage is just someone to entertain the time between the two.
You’re suppose to marry your equal and opposite half. I say that to get to this, the person you marry should be a reflection of yourself, who you choose to be and how you want the world to see you. Man, some of you missed the mark on the self evaluation. There is a such thing is going outside of your league. Which is why you fail. If you came from Ramen Noodles, don’t chase the person who is used to steak, I’m almost positive at least once in that relationship you will be reminded of who you are/were, and the other way around, if you know you’re high maintenance and don’t know what it is to struggle, why be with someone who only knows that, they’re bringing your value down! These partnerships are always one sided cause only one person is benefiting.
The process to get married is way too simple. Along with a blood test, should come IQ & credit scores. Those things say a lot. The big question should always be WHY are you getting married? The answer to that alone will tell you how this is gonna go, and be honest, if you know you’re marrying for financial security tell the other person so that way you can make it work. They may be cool with it as long as you don’t do certain things. Know what you bring to the table! Y’all stop tricking these folks into marrying you then dropping the ball once you have a ring.