Its your own fault

“Every excuse I ever heard made perfect sense to the person who made it. ”
― Dr. Daniel T. Drubin

Okay Sugas, so this is for the people who every year, say its “their year” I never understood why people waited until the new year to get the “new me” attitude, you’re given that opportunity every day you open your eyes. Now wherever you are in life is the place you guided yourself. I know many blame circumstances, parents, no education, being poor whatever but the truth is its all bullshit excuses! You want something- grind for it. The only thing that can stop you is you. You get the same 24 hours in a day as any other person.

Wherever you go or don’t go is all based on you. People will always vote against you, attempt to sabotage you and distract you, its usually when you’re making progress. People love to see you doing well- just not better than them. Another’s judgement of you isn’t true unless you accept it. Your life is yours alone, regardless of marriage, kids whatever you bring those people around your life and share your life, but its still your life.

Remember your word is a direct reflection of your character, behind your words should be action, so if every year is “your year” but there are no obvious strides, I don’t believe you. If you’re going to do something than do it, no need to tell everyone what, how or when you’re doing stuff. Never let your left hand see what your right is doing, not even the “closest” people near you need to know everything. Look at it this way, if no one knows what the plan was, no one can criticise you for what you didn’t do… People never notice things like they notice a mistake, thats life.

Happiness, Peace, Success, all come from YOU, the biggest mistake I see is people depending on kids, spouses, bosses, churches, pets,…ect to be the key of their happiness, but guess what? When all those things are gone, the common thread still standing is YOU. YOU have to make yourself happy, its your own fault if you’re not where you want to be. Today is a new day, new chance to become the “new you”, stop complaining about stuff you can’t control, and start changing the stuff you can. If you want something in life, even if no one in your corner supports you, don’t just chase a dream, catch it, tackle it then take it to the next level.

“you don’t have to worry about burning bridges, if you’re building your own”
― Kerry E. Wagner

– Keep it sincere ppl.



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