“The O.T.H.E.R. woman: an Overplayed Toy He Eventually Releases”
If he calls/comes over at a specific yet routine time of day- its a reason he always frees up at that time.
You always pay for your own stuff when you’re out- he is not paying taxes on the side chick, no maam, you’ll be buying your own burger.
All time together is scheduled on his time only- yea, he’s busy alright.
If all the places you go are more than a 20 mile drive- its not because the places way out are nice, its so no one he knows is likely to run into you.
He always comes to your place or the closest you’ve seen to his is the driveway…
If he makes it a point to remind you that he’s spending time with you- “I’m here aren’t I?” sound familiar. Meaning its a privilege to be on his time.
You’re holiday is the day before or after the actual celebrated day-the actual day is spent with his actual girlfriend.
He only calls or comes over at night- you may not even be the side chick, you’re just the booty call.
If you get tackled down for trying to take a picture- playas know there can be no incriminating evidence.
If he asks what kind of stuff (jewelry, clothes, perfume ect) you like, and you never receive any of those things- congrats you just helped picked the main chick’s gift.
His friends openly flirt with you and he does nothing to put them in their place- you know the saying “it ain’t no fun if the homies cant have none”
You may hear about his family & friends but never actually met or get to go around anyone.
He never actually calls you- I get it we all text, but if you never get a call something is up.
If he says you’re the ‘main girl’, ‘#1 girl”, or in the event he’s “too hurt from the last”, or just not ready and you’re just his girl (not to be confused with girlfriend) all equals assistant girlfriend aka side chick.