Ok, lets address these individuals who are moving way too fast. Now, personally, I’m not very trusting, so you’d be privileged to know my last name within a month. I’m really not sure why,(I have my own conclusions), but there are some individuals who get entirely too excited in a situations & are jumping the gun. I’m just gonna say why its important when walking into a new situation, to just sit back, observe & shut the fxck up. (Yes, my language is a tad harsh here (get used to it) but sometimes its necessary)
Now one conclusion I have, is these “independent women” these women are where they want to be career wise, have been in love before, have completed all major milestones in their life and a guy, marriage & kids are just up next on the things they want to have accomplished ( usually by a certain age) so they are ready to just knock the last bit out and start the next goal. you crazy, blinded birds are the ones getting snatched up! Stop trusting people within the first 5 days you clowns. You appear way too needy, you may not get that same affection back, and you’ll prove you’re willing to drop your own life for someone else- all unattractive signs.
The second types to jump into a relationship ready to move in & get hitched are what I call “runners” fellas, when you meet this chick, unless you’re ready for that- walk away. This female has gone through something major recently that she wants to bury by doing something equally as big if not bigger, this chick is unstable. Oh ladies, its not just us, guys will do this too, run. This person is going to burn out any chances of anything long term, if you do everything upfront, there is nothing to look forward to or grow on.
Sometimes things in life really are too good to be true. I’m not saying be like me, but I do believe people need to go back to having their guard up and putting some resistance into themselves. Never show your opponent everything in the beginning, or at all as far as I’m concerned. Most people will trust until you give them a reason not to, I’m the exact opposite, I don’t trust anything until I’m shown a proven reason why I should. When approaching any new situation, job, place, or people its always best to feel them and their intentions out, listen to what exactly is being said and going on around you, a lot of situations can be avoided if you’d pay attention. Sometimes a person can be giving you a warning sign that they want to be in control of what you do and who you see – regardless of what you want.