Holding on past your expiration

Many women (including myself) find themselves in situations in which we need to let go and don’t, we will stick around way too long for no good reason.  We need to realize when something or someone has ran its course in our lives, accept it and be willing to let go! Women will often put up with bs, cheating, inconsiderate, rude men because we’re afraid to be alone, or just because its comfortable. You rather deal with the familiar bull then to risk dealing with something new. What we need to stop doing, is knowing and accepting how we deserve better and how he “ain’t no good” and STAYING! If hes a constant headache, liar, cheater- LEAVE.

When a relationship is more of a headache or job-its time to walk, just like when a job feels like that, you need to focus on finding a career, something you’re happy to get up and do everyday.  I first hand this isn’t easy, but it is possible.

Many women will say its “something” keeping them tied down to a relationship that they cant figure out, so they want to stay until they know. Maybe you need to learn to let go and this is just another test to see if you’re strong enough to do it yet. Even if its not the case, if a man has a longer list of bad days then good let him go and possibly what you need to learn will come to light. Really sit thinking (even write them down) what are the reasons you say, this wont work if you’re not truthful though and then realize all the reasons you have to leave. Let this list be your factual proof and decide off your own evidence what your decision should be.

Now you lonely, “I don’t wanna be alone” chicks make me sick! The first thing you need to do is learn to be alone, to grow some backbone and learn to love yourself. Men know you are weak and will stay because you lack confidence and understanding in your self and just as planned, you deal with it and stay because you are WEAK.  You have to know you want and deserve better then be willing to explore it.

Just like throwing out old food when it has expired, you need to throw out old relationships and habits when they expire. Accept the evidence when it presents itself that the time has come to let go. Once you do let go realize and accept it was for the best. You don’t talk yourself into going in the trash and getting out that old milk do you? So why convince yourself to go back to an old habit you know is a poison to you?

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  1. How dare you go and be all correct and stuff….I’m busy digging through the trash here. 🙂

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